Her: What should I wear?

Is it ok to dress to kill? dress sexily? or just simple dressing?

When you are going out on a 1st date, it is not advisable to dress to kill, plunging neckline or very short skirt. you do not want to give your date a wrong impression. Neither do you want to distract your date.

You want your date to focus on you when talking to you and not on your cleavage when talking to you. Of course there are those who say that if you have it, why not flaunt it? Sex & The City!

That depends on the situation you are in. You are not advised to flaunt too much on a first date. If you are meeting a guy for the first time, your safety is of prime consideration. You do not want to turn him on too much and ended up having a one night stand with him and there goes your date. Dress in a way that would make you look pretty with some accessories and yet at the same time make him respect you on a first date as a clean date.

We remember watching Sex & The City, and our favourite actress, Sarah Jessica Parker as the journalist wears great fashionable clothes and her Manola Blahnik high heels-3 inches or higher as she is considered short for the american standard. We love her clothes not to mention her great figure BUT why must she always wear her bra straps exposed behind a bare back? so ...no no! but she still looks great in whatever clothing she wears.

Remember , if you want to wear sexy clothes that gives a peek here and there. do not expose your under-wears, be it your bra strap, undies sticking out from your low cut jeans as you would be giving the impression that you are not bothered of your looks or just plain bad dresser.

Honestly, we would not recommend platform shoes on a date. One guy told us that he was rather put off by his date wearing a platform shoes that he never saw her again thereafter.

We will be writing more later!

Cheers!

Happy Dating!