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Wednesday, February 28, 2007

To succeed in dating for the women of the 21st century

hello ladies,

You may just meet Mr. Right at any time. so look your best!

Never be too up front about yourself.

Never tell things which are confidential.

A enigmatic woman drives men wanting more ie. to know more about u.

Less is always more. Not clothing mind u but keeping your dates brief. not to worry if he never calls u thereafter. It only means that he is not interested in u. so, move on Dahlin!

Stay in shape at all times. Some men like fleshy women and some like tall and slender women. whichever it is, it is best to look lean and in shape.

Let your man foor the bill. if he wants to split the bill with u, u know what to DO ;) but u will still politely pay the bill.

Sex early in your dating game plan will ruin everything.

Never turn up early. It is a lady's perogative.right.

Never be too available when he wants you to be.

happy Dating!

Friday, February 23, 2007

Intellectual vs Physical attraction

hello all women,

Did u know that if a man is physically attracted to u at first glance or first meeting, the attraction may not sustain for a long time and may wear out once he finds out that both of u do not click "intellectually" or that u both may have different interests unless of course he wants a TROPHY GF!

To sustain the relationship for a longer period towards building a steady relationship and possibly towards marriage later, there must not only be intellectual but also physical attraction.

He will become more involved, available, and start pursuing u and u are no longer stuck with an unavailable or non-committal guy. It is fun to be chased and feel LOVED!

Thursday, February 22, 2007

What She SAYS, what She MEANT

hello Men,

She says, I think i want to..."
She meant, "I have already made up my mind. Just agree with me!"
She says, "Maybe".
She meant, "No!".
She says "I look fat"
She meant, "Tell me I'm slim and still look gorgeous!"

Sometimes women like to contradict themselves.
She says, "Yes" but she actually meant, "No!"

She says, " You look tired, let's pay the bill and go!"
She meant, " I'm bored with you and i want to go home."

when she is more grumpy than usual, it means that she is having her period blues and the guy better watch out not to say the wrong thing!

Afterall, are MEn not from MARS and women from VENUS?

we will write more later!

have a successful dating for the day,

cheers!!

why not palm read? The Ultimate!

Hey there!

Someone just told us that every time he goes out on a date and does a little palm reading for fun with his date, the date would always end up well! Of course, u must make sure you tell her all the good stuff.

Palm reading is a very popular practice in Hong Kong. Almost everyone consult palm reading about their life, business, future, career etc.

This is the ultimate ice breaker.
Learn how to read the future from her palm:
a) You can hold her hand while reading.
Reading palms is always good for fun, in a relaxed atmosphere. All women love it.
You can get sexual without actually being sexual ("You will have 5 children and uncountable love affairs").

b) This gets her fantasies building
You make her interested in what u are telling her and her future

c)She will be curious about u as not many people can read palm.

d)You show her that she can be your friend (since she already tells you her secrets)
You are surrounded by a mystery ("Hey, does this fella really know everything about me? Who is he anyway?")

Go check out that palm reading book. Some ideas off our head are some books from Lillian Too , the famed feng shui master. She is more into fengshui but there are some topics on palm reading.

The ULTIMATE no fail method to break the ice!

REMEMBER! TO ensure success in your date, make sure you tell her all the good and fun stuff!

Happy Dating!

I want to IMPRESS my date: Part 2

Hello Friends,

If you had missed the recent Valentine Day with no date, Cheer Up! It is not the end of the world and there are millions of men and women out there who are just like you, still searching for that someone to fill the void in their life!

In our first part, we discussed that in order to IMPRESS your date, you must not be a motor mouth, you must not monopolise the whole conversation etc...

Here, we will discuss further How to IMPRESS your date:

1) SMILE!
Is it that difficult to smile? when you smile, the whole world smile with you. When you smile, it shows that you are friendly. Who wants to date a sour face right?

Advice for men: When u smile and joke a little, the ice is easier to break and the women will like you better compared to someone who is serious and looks dull and grumpy.


Advice for women: When u smile, YOU will suddenly woo the men's heart and he will like you better as a friend and/or gf later. Guys are always looking for that sweet faced beauty with pleasant characteristics.

2) Stand TALL
When you walk tall and sit straight, it shows that you are a confident person. who wants to date a person who thinks the world is ending any minute and feeling depressed all the time? Look successful! No one likes being around a loser! A total turn off.

3) Complaint Not
In one of our speed dating sessions, a professional lady was dating another movie producer (guy). when the guy asked " How do you do?" Well, it sent the lady off on an endless tour of complaints about her work, boss, colleagues, family and etc.
Hello! We are meeting for the first time, who wants to listen to all your complaints. I am not Aunt Thelma! So obviously , the producer gave her an "X" in the result card sheet.

4) Can you give me that DEEP VIOCE?
Deep voice is considered very SEXY! Try it and you will surprise even yourself.

5) Money, money
Money is a taboo subject during the first date. If you talk too much about money, it will put the other party off unless he or she is after your money.

6) Conversation ideas for starters:

a) Say "Hi" and give each other that MILLION DOLLAR smile!
b) Compliment her on her dressing choice etc.
Follow up with: " Tell me, what is the secret behind your gorgeous silky hair?". This will keep the conversation going.
Discuss about food (e.g. when you meet her in a cafe/restaurant). This gets the senses going and creates a "stimulated" atmosphere.
c) Admire the atmosphere of the cafe/restaurant aloud!
d) Make her feel a million dollars worth. Yup! THat is your mission (men) on a 1st date.
e) Say she looks like this fabulous looking movie star/singer. ;)

We will write more later.

cheers,

speed dating team
datingspeed@yahoo.com

Tuesday, February 13, 2007

How creative are you on Valentine's Day

Dear all,

Today is Valentine's Day! How creative are u? is it just a bunch of flowers sent to the office for the love of your life right now and then meet later for a romantic dinner with some gift exchange after which it is the movies and light snacks to comment about the movies and lovey-dovey small talk thereafter before you send your date home?

isn't that what every couple is doing? why not be more creative ? Can you think out of A box?

1) why not go to the sea-side for a romantic picnicking under the starS? then walk for miles bare footed along the beach with the breeze blowing against your face.

2) why not take the day off together and adorn the place where you spend the most time together. Paint your bedroom, update the kitchen,stock up your bathroom with soaps, candles and new decor. Do it together -- and don't forget to celebrate the finished project that evening over a glass of champagne! Don't forget that sexy lingerie!

or be less formal and celebrate the evening with some take-out for dinner? you will enjoy yourselves more because you had spend the day doing productive activities together. Ah! love is in the air!

3)Go somewhere nostalgic -- the dinner where you had your first date, or your favorite former "date night" spot. Share a choc-shake together. Whatever you do, think young.

4)Ever been jetskiing? skydiving? Why not arrange an experience that the two of you have always talked about but never dared to try. The shared excitement will create a new bond between you -- and the adrenalin pumped will benefit both of you later in the bedroom!

5) Announce over the intercom at the restaurant dinner that YOU LOVE this person with all your heart, soul, life and everything else that is in u and u will NEVER EVER LEAVE him/her for the rest of your life. Say, YOU COMPLETE ME: ( from Jerry McGuire, starring Tom Cruise and Zellweger)

Write to us and let us know what your creative ideas for the Valentine day would be!

cheers,

Speed Dating Team